1 Corinthians 13:4

1 Corinthians 13:4 KJV Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, 
 
Now we begin to learn what a God-like love looks like and acts like. True love is patient and kind. When we put others first, this is how love ought to look. Love does not envy. True love takes joy in the happiness and well-being of another. Love does not brag about what it does. Love never points out to someone what we have done for them. love is not arrogant. Arrogance is simply a form of pride. Loving someone for what you get from the relationship is arrogance. Simply put, love is all about the other person and never about us.